What Autism Isn't: Debunking Myths and the Power of Early Identification
- Colleen Mckay
- Jul 13
- 3 min read
Recent statistics indicate that 1 in 36 children are diagnosed with Autism. This figure has gradually risen over the past decade, raising concerns for many families. To understand this increasing trend, various theories have been proposed by different sources. Unfortunately, this has led to confusion, mistrust, and a sense of helplessness among many parents. While it's beneficial to live in a society with abundant information, the drawback is that anyone, including those with harmful intentions, can join the conversation. In this article, I aim to dispel some myths about Autism. I hope it clarifies what Autism is and isn't. The information presented here is evidence-based, relying on current, proven data. We still have much to learn about the causes of autism, its key characteristics, and the most effective therapies, but having a clear understanding of what it is serves as a crucial first step.
Myth 1: Vaccines cause autism
Vaccines do not cause autism. Doctors have carefully compared thousands of kids in multiple research studies, and children who get their shots are just as likely to be autistic as those who don't. In other words, autism isn't caused by anything a parent did or didn't do - and it isn't caused by vaccines. Keeping up with vaccinations is safe and protects your child from dangerous diseases without increasing autism risk

Myth 2: Autism is caused by bad parenting or a lack of discipline
Autistic kids do want friends and family time, even if it looks different. Your child might not join play with other kids in the usual way, but that doesn't mean they don't care. They might play alongside others instead of with them, or they may talk at length about their favorite topics as a way to connect. With patience and guidance, autistic children can learn how to play and interact, and many enjoy social activities - like any child, they just want to be accepted.
Myth 3: Autism means low intelligence (intellectual disability)
Many autistic children are just as smart as other kids - some are even exceptionally bright in certain things - but they might show their intelligence in unique ways. For instance, your child might have a hard time with language but be a whiz at puzzles or memory. Autism itself doesn't mean a child can't learn or think well. It simply means they learn differently. So don't underestimate your autistic child's intelligence - with the right support, they can surprise you with how much they understand and can do.
Myth 4: Only boys have Autism
Autism is not just a boy's thing. Girls can have autism too. It just sometimes looks different in girls. Your daughter might be autistic even if she seems social but comes home exhausted, or if her habits are seen as just "being quiet" or just "being picky." If you have concerns about a girl's development, trust your instincts and seek evaluation. Getting help early is important for all children.
Myth 5: Autism only affects certain races
Autism is not caused by race or culture - any child can be autistic. Sometimes people think only white kids have autism because in the past more white kids were diagnosed. But now we know that was wrong - Black and brown childre have autism at similar rates. The good news is, more families of all background are learning about autism. So if you notice signs in your own child, don't dismiss it - trust yourself and get them checked. Autism isn't anyone's fault, and getting support early can help every child, no matter who they are or where their family comes from.
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